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anything you can help me with will be appreciated, hopefully my dad won't spend all my paychecks to the point where it was like with my old job where even though i was working i was broke cuz he took all my money before i could spend any for myself
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so my dad just revealed to me that he gets paid about 1350 per month through his SSI Benefits and gets paid about 1030 through his retirement. So total all together it’s about 2380, we’ll round it off to 2400 that he gets every month.
950 of that goes to the House’s rent cuz our landlord is covering power, cuz our local power company is a bunch of douchebags where being fair on the bill is concerned. about 600+ of another chunk of that money goes to payments of both the cars he bought with the Back-payment of his retirement, one of which was a graduation gift he got for my brother. so that’s already about 1550 of his check gone.
so there should be about 850 left for remaining expenses like groceries, we spend about 120-200 on that depending on what we need to get at the time, he goes to Comoddities (a kind of Poor peoples’ free food place) where he gets canned goods and preserves out the ass so we hardly have to buy any of that anymore, so at most we only buy meat from a local Butcher, which when I budget the meat on my paychecks, i spend only 55-70 bucks on the meat.
but i don’t see him buying this kind of stuff on his own when he goes out alone to do “food Shopping” as he puts it, i see him come home with snacks and carb-foods and instant meals. but supposedly we spend about 200 dollars on our food shopping for groceries, I know some of that is flavored cream, gotta have it for coffee, no avoiding it.
even then, that should still leave 650 for other emergency expenses, like right now, without me having a job, the internet bill needs to get paid, but somehow he doesn’t have the money to spend and needs to sell off DVDs to buy food for meals for the week.
I went with him and asked him if he could swing for a flavored creamer bottle for me cuz he always does it for my brother when HE doesn’t have money, and i was chided before for adding something i wanted to the basket without asking cuz it’s just common fucking courtesy
so I ask this time, he tells me “if you have the money go for it” so I’m forced to put it back cuz he knows I’m broke.
He tries bringing up how there’s no 30+ year old adult in the world that gets a free ride when i tell him i don’t have the money, and says how it’s not the time and place for the discussion, so I get in his face and make it the time and place by asking him, where does all his money go.
he points out the house’s rent, the payments on the cars and out groceries, so I ask him directly, saying “okay, you just basically said about 1200-1500 of your money goes to the cars and the rent, where is the rest of it going cuz I know we’re not buying 1200-600+ worth of groceries, and there’s no way our Gas and Water bill is up to 1200-600+ of money either.
when i had a job both before and after my spring and fall Semesters, I knew where my money went at all times, and I knew how much i had leftover and what i could spend it on or what it needed to be spent on at all times cuz i know how this family spends money.
I usually had about 300+ to 200+ leftover after buying groceries and paying the internet bill in case the gas or water bill was due, which during the summer is always about 5-12 per month by the end of the month so our local Gas doesn’t usually send a bill out till it gets significantly high, which i praise them for, it’s a high bill by 2 or 3 months BUT!! it’s still fair, cuz then when it’s paid, that’s it, then the water bill’s only about 50+ which is still ridiculous cuz they charge us for Sewage waste and storm water
ANYWAY point is, I used to get less than him Bi-weekly every paycheck and I still had money leftover for emergency payments, and even then STILL HAD MONEY leftover for Lunch or snacks at work, or a grocery emergency, like if we needed milk, or eggs or Cream for the coffee (we’re all coffee addicts here)
despite my paychecks being lower than his SSI and retirement Bi-Weekly, I STILL HAD MONEY LEFTOVER…………………………so that leaves me to wonder
where the fuxk does my dad’s leftover 1200-600+ monies that he should have after all the large payments go? What teh fuckety-fuck does he spend it on, and why the fucking-fucker-fuckitall is he broke, when according to my most basic of Maths…..he should have almost 1200-600+ leftover after everything.
It could be i’m better at spending my money than he is, but even then, after doing all the math and with him telling me what the household expenses are where his check goes for spending, i’m left wondering where all his leftover money goes.
whatever, he's spending it on whatever he wants, and being irresponsible, next time he comes at me with where my money goes i'm getting into his face about it and ask him "So what happens to the leftover 1200-600+ you should have, based on what you told me as far as our household expenses that you pay for, you should have about 1200-600+ dollars leftover. so where does it go?"
and i'll stand there and wait for a real answer, he still hasn't answered me the first time i asked him right in the middle of walmart